Another Departure

Another of my colleague is leaving the coy... sad... but still have to move on... all the best to my colleague for the future endeavor.

Broke...

finding new ways to earn more money... how how how?

Farking IMpressive

Simply Awesome - Voca People

Doing somthing for nothing :p

Wooden Toy from Love of Siam

anyone can help me find this toy in BANGKOK?! so nice lar

i want this for my bday haha :)

TIME WARP - SLOWMO

Think of me

Evian Roller Babies international version

Funny but abit freaky... if my baby does this i will flip! haha

EM JAY next to Jermaine's head - freaky

Finding Motivation

Maslow's hierarchy of needs is predetermined in order of importance. It is often depicted as a pyramid consisting of five levels: the lowest level is associated with physiological needs, while the uppermost level is associated with self-actualization needs, particularly those related to identity and purpose.

Deficiency needs must be met first. Once these are met, seeking to satisfy growth needs drives personal growth. The higher needs in this hierarchy only come into focus when the lower needs in the pyramid are met. Once an individual has moved upwards to the next level, needs in the lower level will no longer be prioritized. If a lower set of needs is no longer being met, the individual will temporarily re-prioritize those needs by focusing attention on the unfulfilled needs, but will not permanently regress to the lower level. For instance, a businessman at the esteem level who is diagnosed with cancer will spend a great deal of time concentrating on his health (physiological needs), but will continue to value his work performance (esteem needs) and will likely return to work during periods of remission.

read more here

Thank you...

after all this emo emo things that are going thru my mind after a very 'bad fall' i decided to write something nice...

this is a thank you note to you... you played a big role in my life... and u were once a part in my heart.
Thank you for being there when i am down

• Thank you for inviting me to the parties
• Thank you for the laughter you have given me
• Thank you for the nice places you have showed me
• Thank you for the movies you have shared with me
• Thank you for the comments you gave to my baking
• Thank you for the fashion tips you gave me
• Thank you for being a listening ear for all my woes
• Thank you for the hugs and kisses
• Thank you for being my light to light up my darkest hour
• Thank you for the fun facial moment you did for me
• Thank you for recommending the hair salon
• Thank you for the color you gave to my hair
• Thank you for throwing your tantrums to make me realise my mistake
• Thank you for being such a sweetheart to me

there are too many to be listed here... jus to hightlight some of them

Thank you very much

不想想太多

当给你自由 却赚太多
觉得太重的时候
在我们之间
是否要更长的空格

我和你不同 当你向左
我偏向右的时候
爱是否到了
找不到方向的路口
依赖了多久
在你怀里的温柔
现在一个人
只能大步往前走

我不想想大多
当别人又说起你的时候
不过是分手
别夸张了寂寞
我不想想太多
当radio又传来那首歜
Anyone at all at all
还爱你　没有错

我和你不同 当你向左
我会向右的时候
爱是否到了
找不到方向的路口
依赖了多久
在你怀里的温柔
现在一个人
只能大步往前走

我不想想大多
当别人又说起你的时候
不过是分手
别夸张了寂寞
我不想想太多
当radio又传来那首歜
Anyone at all at all
还爱你　没有错

我以为自己可以很洒脱
会酷酷的转身我掉头就走
没想过　有些难过
我自己不说　却被看透
整个人被泪水淹没

我不想想太多 不过是分手

我不想想太多
当radio又传来那首歜
Anyone at all at all
还爱你　没有错

Tear Dried, Heart Died...

it have been 6 months since we have tied our lives together...

the laughter we have shared, the tears we have shed... but no more

time passes by even without us knowing, cos we are so deep in love to even bother... but no more

we whisper sweet nothings to each others' ear, even the softest tone can be heard... but no more

nights spent in cuddles, every inch of our skin in contact... but no more

we hold our hands tight together, not even the strongest cant pull us apart... but no more

1 month of absence from each other to sort our thoughts and the feeling grew weaker... once we are apart... we are gonna break...

both of us are wrong and are to blame for this to happen... we never hold dear to our relationship.. we just take each other for granted ... and we ster to the path of hatred...

though we are gonna be separated the next day... u and i both noe that we will still be there for each other... as friends... and as a friend i will still wan you to be happy..

like they always say.. it takes 2 to come together but it takes 2 to go separate... so let hold the memories of the good times and learn from those bad times...

i wish you all the best...

lurve
Ben

Being in love

The most important aspect of love is not in giving or the receiving: it’s in the being. When I need love from others, or need to give love to others, I’m caught in an unstable situation. Being in love, rather than giving or taking love, is the only thing that provides stability. Being in love means seeing the Beloved all around me.
-Ram Dass

Remember also to always choose to see the good in people, always choose to accept people for who they are, their qualities, their flaws and most importantly, always remember that we are all different. We must never assume people to be righteous or good only when they are the same as us. We must allow them to live their lives as they choose to, and along the way understand every footprint they made and then, comprehend their existence in life. Only then, you will be able to grasp the meaning of happiness - when you embrace empathy over prejudice.

sometimes the wisest moments in decision making, is never about using your mind. While we see with our eyes, hear with our ears and rationalize with our mind, let the process of decision making always go through your heart. Recall what your parents taught you during the first ten years in your life and use them as underlying principles to make a judgement or a decision. You will not be far from being right.

How deep is your love?

I know your eyes in the morning sun
I feel you touch me in the pouring rain
And the moment that you wander far from me
I wanna feel you in my arms again

And you come to me on a summer breeze
Keep me warm in your love and then softly leave
And its me you need to show

How deep is your love
I really need to learn
cause were living in a world of fools
Breaking us down
When they all should let us be
We belong to you and me

I believe in you
You know the door to my very soul
Youre the light in my deepest darkest hour
Youre my saviour when I fall
And you may not think
I care for you
When you know down inside
That I really do
And its me you need to show